Uncovered, "'Spiritually, Emotionally & Financially"
Terry Doram-Hodge
With much love, I say, that there are some women who are uncovered, “Spiritually, Emotionally & Financially!”
Last but not least, some are walking around “uncovered even in their attire!” 👀
Let’s talk about it! It may be hot here in Atlanta, but, it would be very ladylike to put more than 5% of clothes on when going to the local grocery store to pick up a dozen of eggs & a box of Milk Duds. Modesty is STILL in effect for 2019 & going forward!
It’s not cute to see butt cheeks hanging out... in fact, a bra would be very much needed! This IS coming from a place of love because some women simply may not know. I will admit, back in my much younger days, I wore some clothing that was probably less than appropriate, & I know I’ve asked myself, “What in the world was I thinking?” We live & we learn AND we help others! Let’s try to learn “sooner” rather than “later.”
Now, being uncovered in the other areas, “some” women are uncovered in their spiritual walk, as it relates to their emotions and also their finances. They could very well be with someone who keeps them stagnant. Meaning the man in their life. We know that he’s not responsible for her emotions, however, how can he be sensitive to her emotions? Being uncovered emotionally, means that he may not know how to cover her in prayer about her emotions when she’s going through something as a woman and/or mom. Will he know how to comfort and show compassion & empathy. Is he the type of man, that will say, “Get over it!” That’s not covering... that’s hurting her!
Is he a Godly man? If he isn’t, how does that help her grow in her walk? That’s being unequally yoked. They can grow together, but why “fail” together unnecessarily?
Last, she’s not being covered financially if she’s with a man who is selfish! He takes and never gives. He’s not a provider, but looks to her to care for him.
Please do NOT misunderstand me... I’m not talking about marriages! I’m talking about women who are in relationships with men who are not helping her win! She may be financially independent all day long, BUT, what does that have to do with him standing on his own two feet and handling business and being a man who wants to provide for the one he says he loves… one who wants to build something great “together”. Perhaps, this speaks to you, and not just a friend that you know of…if it does,, it’s time to move ahead to bigger and better things. Don’t block your blessings!
And to the fellas who may read this... the ones who’ve had some hardships and trying their best to do better for themselves, hats off to you all! I see you and I’m praying for you! It’s not always easy for you. In fact, many days, it’s been difficult. However, that doesn’t mean that you should lose hope, nor give up…YOU KEEP PUSHING! Do NOT give up!!! I’m not speaking about you all... I’m talking about the ones who really don’t care about the woman... the ones who are all about self and the ones who like to play mind games with a woman who only mean them well. You may not be walking with God right now, you may not know how to be the best man for her or even yourself, you may not have your finances in order, however, what you do have is another day, to have it all and to see how wonderful things will be!
If anyone reading this right now, wants a personal relationship with the LORD JESUS CHRIST, simply repeat the scripture out loud below and BELIEVE. May God Bless You!
ROMANS 10:9, 10
If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.